Everything begins with the smallest start and the right reason.
I hear from people everyday who say “I’d like to travel here or start this or try that, but…”
There are a million and one reasons not to do something. There always will be. If you look for one, you’ll no doubt find it.
But one good reason can beat down a thousand bad ones in an instant. All you need is one – one that matters more to you than anything.
All you have to have is enough of a dream, a vision, a belief, so that you have the courage to take that first tiny step. Every step after that is easier. People start to get behind you. Things start to work and suddenly you’re rolling.
But you have to start!
I cannot express this enough. As important as it is to think big, nothing happens until you think small.
- Building a 10,000 reader blog is unimaginable when your only subscriber is your mom. But think how easy it will be to grow 100%.
- The iPhone started with tinkering in a garage with leftover circuit boards.
- Your new company can’t have 40 employees until it has one.
- You can’t find a wife until you go on a date.
- You can’t lose 100 lbs until you lose five.
I don’t care who you are or what you’re planning to do. Every beginning is a humble one.
Don’t over think it and don’t make the mistake of thinking the successful folks around you didn’t start from the same place. They did.
Starting is really the easiest part.
The first step always seems like the worst. It involves the most fear, the most unknown and the most energy. That’s why most people never take it.
But even though we build it up in our head to the size of an obese elephant, the actual first step, from a physical effort perspective, is probably the easiest part of the process. It might only take five or ten minutes to write the first email or have the first meeting.
What is a few minutes?
Put enough of those together and all of a sudden the smallest of beginnings turns into something meaningful. That’s how a paragraph turns into the next best-seller. How a slab of concrete turns into a home. How a step turns into a marathon.
Nothing happens until you start.
Every beginning needs momentum! Start as absolutely small as possible. Instead of searching for reasons to wait, make it too easy not to begin.
10 Ways to Start Really Small:
- Make a tiny list of tiny things.Think as small as possible. Look something up. Ask someone a question. Anything.
- Talk to someone who’s done it.Find a model. It helps tremendously to see a similar path before you walk yours.
- Read something about it.Find a blog post, news article or book chapter about someone who’s done it. Get the juices flowing.
- Make it fun.Look at office space, throw around name ideas, or grab a bottle of wine and sit down with your husband or wife and check out other websites in the space.
- Write about it.Expanding on a new invigorating idea is a ton of fun. Write a sentence. Then maybe another. Write for at least 10 minutes, but you don’t have to stop there. I keep an ongoing idea list in my journal – I love adding to it and makes for a great conversation piece at parties.
- Buy a domain name.Five minutes and $9.95 – easy and cheap!
- List out your reasons why it’s so important to you.What amazing things could happen if you do it? What will you miss out on if you don’t? Use the free Goal Setting workbook if you need to.
- Find your support.A stiff dose of courage and accountability makes for strong beginnings. Think of 2-3 people who will stand behind your idea. Buy them coffee and divulge your plan.
- Help someone.If you plan to offer a service (like teaching, coaching, consulting or web design) then start offering it to those close to you. Find someone in need of something you’re good at. Start helping. Giver’s high is amazing.
- Put a price on it.You’ll never get paid if you don’t ask for money. If you’ve already been helping people then at some point you have to put a price on your goods. You’re worth something to someone, I guarantee it. It only takes an instant to change your price from $0 to something. Getting money for things you’re good at motivates. Simple as that.
There is never a good time.
And if you’re waiting for the right time to do one of the above, I suggest you stop. It won’t come. There’s never a good time to do any of the important things in life. I don’t care if you’re starting a business, having a baby, moving to a new town or trying to lose 100 lbs. Stop waiting. The right time won’t come. You have to start by starting.
Then again you could always do it later. But when was the last time that happened?
What have you been putting off?
What do you want to do but don’t know where to start?
Are you going to look back in five or ten years with 20 times more excuses and say you wish you would have started this or tried that? I hope not. And if you’re looking back now on regret from years past, the good news is it’s never too late.
Ray Krok started McDonalds at 52 (I hope you do something more constructive and healthy than start a McDonalds, but most importantly do something).
There are no real excuses. Especially when you’re starting small.
If you can start, I assure you, you can finish.
Each step makes you more committed to the last. You will find more and more reasons to make it epic as you go.
It all starts with starting.
Don’t intimidate yourself by the image of people living their dreams. Don’t focus on the huge gap you might have to cross to get to where they are. They had to cross it too. But they didn’t cross it in one day. It likely took a thousand little acts. Any one of which seemed insignificant at the time.
A journey of a thousand miles still begins with a single step. Nothing’s changed.
Don’t worry about not knowing about the future. No one does anyway.
If you don’t start, how can you ever finish?
Start with a comment!
What can you do this week (or right now) to get you at least slightly closer to a dream? Share at least one sentence in the comments below. Let that be the beginning. We’ll hold you to it!
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I’m totally pasting this in my tabs to come back to! Some SERIOUSLY good advice! Xo
Chelsea // trendychelsea.wordpress.com
Thank you, so glad you liked it!
Excellent tips! SO TRUE that the first step is often the most difficult!!
So glad you liked it Caitlin!
These are all great tips but the one I loved most was – there is never a good time. That is soooo true. Great post!
Thank you Jackie, so glad you liked it!
“Every beginning is a humble one’….this is so true. So many people get stymied by the perceived enormity of a situation.
Yes, situation will never change until you start something new.
Such a great post! You are right there is no perfect time, sometimes you jsut have to start and see where that takes you!
Thanks for sharing this! I need this reminder sometimes. I have 1,600 or so sessions a month on my blog and my goal is to get to 10k. It seems unattainable sometimes, but you gotta start somewhere!
Sarah Noel – http://www.sarahsmirks.com
Yes, Sarah nothing will ever happen until you start.
Great tips! I had actually quit blogging for over a year because I felt so defeated, but I am back!
Welcome back Meagan!
I love in order to have 40 employees, you have to have one. It can be so hard to remember the importance of each step you take instead of thinking only of the big picture and fretting because you aren’t there yet. This is a great post!
Thank you Chantal, so glad you liked it!
Find someone who’s done it… That is great advice! I’m definitely seeking out people who are successful in an area similar to where I’m trying to focus my niche. Thanks for these great resources!